Day 9: Do you accept structure, rules, and limits as part of your submission? How do you feel about them?
I accept structure, rules, and limits, absolutely. I also expect that a Dom (Daddy Dom, Sir, Master, or otherwise) will respect MY own hard limits.
My hard limits are as follows:
-absolutely no play with any persons under the age of 18
-no needle/knife/fire/gun play
-no scat/brown showers
-no unsafe/risky sex (this means if we are NON-monogamous, condoms and dental dams are part of our sex practices)
-no tying me to the bed and then bringing in a line of your friends to fuck me while I can’t consent/leave if I don’t want to
I’m single now, but in my next relationship, I want someone who respects my hard limits. In my last relationship, my so-called Daddy Dom violated that last one on the list, and more than once.
As for rules, I LIKE rules. This is the part where the so-called feminists lose their shit because they “don’t need a man” telling them what to do, but fuck them, I don’t need THEM telling ME what to do. I like when the man I lay with picks out my outfits, orders for me when we go out to eat, tells me when I can and can’t be on my phone or how much TV I can look at (and/or WHAT KIND of things I can look at on TV). I like when the man I lay with tells me I can’t go out late at night (because that means he genuinely cares for my safety), or when he insists that I always wear a seat belt in the car, or that I not overdo it with the desserts because too much sugar is unhealthy, or when he wants to watch me pee/asks me if I have to pee while we’re out somewhere/makes sure I drink enough water. All of that means he cares about me.