Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Trust, honesty, communication,
these are the foundations of a healthy relationship, BDSM, Vanilla, or otherwise. It’s not about whether the Domme canes her submissive twice a week or four times a week…it’s about are they honest with each other & themselves about their lifestyle, do they communicate their needs openly to one another, does each trust the other.